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How to Grip a Pistol: Pictures & Video

High Grip Missing Area on a Handgun
Want to shoot better? You've got to have a proper pistol grip. We cover exactly what makes a good grip for both semi-auto and revolvers.
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    Want to shoot well?

    You’ve got to have a proper grip that minimizes recoil.

    Gripping a Semi-Auto Glock 19
    Gripping a Semi-Auto Glock 19

    Follow along as I cover:

    • what makes for a good grip
    • where all your fingers and hands go
    • how hard to grip
    • best grips for both semi-auto handguns AND revolvers

    By the end, you’ll be shooting better in no time.

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    What Makes a Good Grip?

    Remember high school physics?

    Maybe not…but how about for every reaction there’s an equal and opposite reaction?

    When a bullet leaves the barrel, there’s force that goes backward, and how you hold your handgun will make or break your control of that recoil.

    gun recoiling into shooters face
    Oh noes…

    Think of the gun and your hand as a lever system.

    Handgun Low Grip
    Handgun Low Grip

    The recoil is going to travel straight back in the slide.

    Glock Slide
    Semi-Auto Firing

    If you’re gripping low…that lever-action will really try to flip the gun.

    So what’s the solution?

    Get behind the recoil as much as possible.

    Best Grip But Slide Booboo
    Best Grip But Slide Booboo

    That’s the best to absorb the force…but remember the slide is going to be moving back and forth.

    Everything now in this guide is to best absorb the force…but without giving yourself a booboo.

    How to Grip a Semi-Auto Handgun

    Alignment

    If you’re new and pick up a handgun…chances are you’ll grip it at an angle that’s the most comfortable for you.

    Incorrect Handgun and Wrist Alignment
    Incorrect Handgun and Wrist Alignment

    But resist!

    That recoil is going to go straight into your (weak) wrist.

    You’ll want the gun turned so the recoil can go into your arm and locked wrist.

    Handgun and Wrist Alignment
    Handgun and Wrist Alignment

    The Grip

    Back to grip height…let’s get it as high as possible without putting your hand in the slide’s way.

    Look at this empty space…

    High Grip Missing Area on a Handgun
    High Grip Missing Area on a Handgun

    I want it gone!

    Take a look at the webbing on your dominant hand between your thumb and index finger.

    Hand Web for Gripping
    Hand Web for Gripping

    Jam it up as high as possible on the grip without getting behind the slide.

    It’s going to feel weird but you’ll get used to it.

    High Grip with Hand Web
    High Grip with Hand Web

    How about a top-down view?

    Top Down View of High Web Grip
    Top-Down View of High Web Grip

    Keep your gun aligned correctly and the right side of the gun (if you’re right-handed) should look like this.

    Handgun Three Grip with Index Finger Along Slide
    Handgun Three Grip with Index Finger Along Slide

    Keep your trigger index finger along the slide. Remember the safety rules…no finger on the trigger until you’re on target and ready to shoot!

    How about your non-dominant hand? Keep your thumb loose.

    And don’t you dare do the teacup grip.

    Teacup Grip
    Don’t do it..

    It does nothing for recoil management.

    You want to fill up as much as possible of the empty space on the remainder of the gun.

    Handgun Grip Empty Left Side
    Handgun Grip Empty Left Side

    So take your non-dominant hand, point it forward, then tilt it down 45 degrees.

    Handgun Grip Wrist Angle
    Handgun Grip Wrist Angle

    Wrap those four fingers around the knuckles of your dominant hand.

    Handgun Grip Wrapping Around Knuckles
    Handgun Grip Wrapping Around Knuckles

    And keep that thumb pointed along the frame. Depending on your hand geometry it might look different from my long fingers.

    It’s going to feel very awkward at first.

    Handgun Grip, Thumb Down
    Handgun Grip, Thumb Down

    And remember your dominant hand’s thumb? You can have it down on your other hand.

    Or up….it’s a personal preference.

    Handgun Grip, Thumb Up
    Handgun Grip, Thumb Up

    If you’re shooting a 1911 or something else with manual safety…I like to rest my thumb on it.

    STI Trojan 1911, Safety Down
    STI Trojan 1911, Safety Down
    Handgun Grip, 1911 Safety Shelf
    Handgun Grip, 1911 Safety Shelf

    Lastly, when you punch out with your gun I like to set my wrist at an angle that keeps everything steady and prevents limp wristing (floppy wrists that mess with proper ejection and loading of the cartridges).

    Handgun Grip Set Wrist
    Handgun Grip Set Wrist

    Grip Strength

    Easy…as hard as you can without losing full control of your trigger finger or having your gun shake.

    Lately, I’ve been imagining my hands as a clamp that hinge on my fingers. And it’s my job to clamp down the grip of the gun as much as possible.

    Clamps, Futurama
    Clamps, Futurama

    Want to beef up your hand strength? Try a hand strengthener…they work!

    Now…how about revolvers?

    How to Grip a Revolver

    The basics are the same.

    Gripping a S&W 686 Revolver
    Gripping a S&W 686 Revolver

    You don’t have to worry about a slide moving back and forth…but a revolver brings with it a whole new set of other things!

    First…get that angle correct. Same for all handguns.

    Handgun and Wrist Alignment
    Handgun and Wrist Alignment

    Now you want your grip up as high as possible.

    There’s no more moving slide to worry about…but there’s that hammer!

    So you want it high but not so high that you get hammer bite. I wouldn’t worry about this too much for modern guns…you’d have to be unnaturally high for the hammer to get you.

    Revolver High Grip But Under Hammer
    Revolver High Grip But Under Hammer

    Dominant hand is the same… three fingers on the grip and keep your trigger finger along the frame.

    Revolver Grip with Index Finger Along Side
    Revolver Grip with Index Finger Along Side

    As well as your non-dominant hand…but you have to watch out for the cylinder gap!

    Revolver Cylinder Gap Grip
    Revolver Cylinder Gap Grip

    In revolvers, the cylinder gap is where all the hot gasses escape when you shoot a round.

    Depending on the gun and caliber…you can get a simple owie, a messed-up nail, or even some things missing.

    You’ll have to modify your grip a little so you won’t be near it.

    Since I have long fingers, I adopt a thumb-tucked position instead.

    Revolver Thumb Tucked Position
    Revolver Thumb Tucked Position

    Or you can also try out a thumb-over position which helps a lot for smaller revolvers that tend to kick up and down more.

    Revolver Thumb Over Position Grip for Smaller Guns
    Revolver Thumb Over Position Grip for Smaller Guns

    Drills to Improve Grip

    You can also add some drills into your routine as you get more comfortable to work on your grip.

    Check out these Brownells Daily Defense videos for some tips!

    Final Thoughts

    That does it for now!

    Remember the basics of recoil and how all the aspects of grip go to fight it.

    Weaver Shooting Stance, Side
    Weaver Shooting Stance, Side

    Keep your grip aligned with your arm, get a high grip with your dominant hand, and cover as much area with your non-dominant hand.

    And finally, grip it as hard as possible without affecting your trigger finger!

    Want to shoot even better? Check out our Ultimate Guide to Shooting More Accurately. Better yet…want to learn everything in video in under 2 hours? Check out my Beginner Handgun Course.

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    18 Leave a Reply

    • Adam

      Thanks Eric! Fantastic step by step tutorial. The photo and concise explanation of gun alignment in dominant hand is especially helpful. Even for regular shooters, it’s easy to get lazy and not lock in proper gun to wrist/forearm alignment. Great work!

      March 31, 2023 10:07 am
      • Eric Hung

        Thanks so much, Adam!

        March 31, 2023 10:11 am
    • Lyle

      This is an excellent article for beginners - I just bought my first pistol, Kel Tec P17, and am just getting used to the feel of a gun and the idea of having one in the house (I'm a 77 year old woman who had never held a gun before!) so this article and photos on grip and shooting stances are informative and right to the point - thank you!

      March 8, 2023 8:52 am
    • John

      Why don't ya'll just make these how to grip and use articles a sticky type of thing instead of reposting them over and over again over time as articles ?

      October 26, 2022 5:32 am
      • Jacki Billings

        Sometimes we add new info, or in this case, a new video in there. But we appreciate the feedback and will definitely consider that when we make changes to the site. Thanks!

        October 26, 2022 4:47 pm
        • John

          I was thinking maybe have them always available like you guys stick the "most Popular" in the sidebar on the main page. Maybe a 'Guide' section where they are (links) always there showing on the front page, for example "[Guide] How to Grip a Pistol", they could still be updated. Its some good information for a novice (or even as a reminder for some) but as it is right now, for example, unless a novice looking for information visiting the site searches for it or it appears again as an article they don't see it.

          October 27, 2022 1:28 am
    • Wally

      Now that's an article worth sharing. I'd say 90% of gun owners don't know proper grip. Which is why I'll be sharing. With firearms sales at a record high, PLEASE write more on techniques.

      October 25, 2022 5:39 pm
    • Billy

      First step, get a gun that fits. Then work fundamentals.

      August 16, 2022 9:54 am
    • John

      extended dovetail, best thing since sliced bread for a new gun owner.

      I get these new gun owners come to class and they have been trying the new gun out at the range before starting the class. Sometimes they have slide bite and one of their first questions is "look what happened! Is this going to happen every time?"

      I tell them, "Its not going to happen if you don't let it happen. And how you don't let it happen is a proper grip, and for extra precaution an extended dove tail if you want to do that and can." Then they ask "whats that?" and I say "I'll cover it in class, so lets get started."

      August 2, 2022 3:07 am
      • Paul Magera

        Beavertail?

        August 3, 2022 8:53 am
        • John

          Yes 'bever tail'.... screwed up spell check on my phone. I added some phrases a while back for something and haven't removed them yet and now every time It sees the word 'tail' it adds 'dovetail'. Yes. I mean 'bever tail' and not 'dovetail'

          August 3, 2022 10:06 am
          • Fuckface

            "Beaver"

            Come on, dipshit. Get it right

            October 3, 2022 5:23 pm
    • David SIEGEL

      I purchased a Mantis X. With the cost of ammo, cost of range time I had hoped it has value.
      However, I do not seem to get the same corrective suggestion twice out of 10 shots. Either I do not regularly do the same thing wrong which I could work to correct. Or, I rarely do everything right.

      April 10, 2022 5:55 pm
    • Wayne Brooks

      I have a question. I’ve been shooting a kimber 1911 and a s&w 2.0. I bought a s&w shield 9mm and I shoot low about 5inches at ten yards. Why do you think that is. I’ve tried 115 and 124gr whith no noticeable difference.

      February 22, 2022 11:53 am
      • Kurtis Hughes

        Sounds like trigger "Jerk" instead of "Press". I have the same issue (I'm working on it !! ...LOL)
        My shots are low and left. About 7-8 O'Clock consistently. But if I slow down and focus on my Pressing the trigger they dead center, right where I want em'. But that affects my speed. So, I will continue to practice practice practice........Something to look at Mr. Brooks.

        August 2, 2022 4:08 pm
    • garyZ

      This was very helpful, thanks!
      Question, though, on one item that would seem to defeat that nice straight line to keep aligned with the direction of the recoil: "when you punch out with your gun I like to set my wrist at an angle" That's a different dimension than the original straight-line advice you gave at the top, but why wouldn't you want to have this dimension lined up straight too? Thanks Eric!

      October 18, 2020 2:03 pm
    • Jerry Shoate

      Hi Eric!
      I just finished reading the "how to shoot better by improving your grip" segment. Very informative!
      I'll try to incorporate in that in every range day from now on. I have been doing the "fingers of the non dominant hand over the knuckles of you gun hand" technique, but I never considered the space between the grip and the webbing of my hand. Something to work on, especially drawing from a cross-body draw as I do.
      Keep doing what you're doing. I enjoy every article you write and, like you, am trying to soak up as much gun knowledge as possible.
      Thanks for your time, Eric, and I look forward to your next great article.

      October 16, 2020 5:55 am
    • Darlene Edwards

      I want a revolver but it has to be no longer than my hand. Is that a possible option?

      October 12, 2020 9:07 am
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